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Stop The Madness

January 25, 2008 @ 11:25

I listened with great interest yesterday as Toronto’s talk radio stations dealt with Africentric schools.

It’s one of those issues where you just want to pound your head against the wall because it’s so ridiculous. Its segregation in its purest form and to think that members of the black community want to go back to something their ancestors fought so hard against is irony in its fullest form.

Black schools are wrong and all they would do is perpetuate the real problem that plagues the kids in question; the lack of a solid family structure and discipline at home.

I know, I know. Every situation is different and every life is unique and you can’t throw a blanket over an entire issue, but the longer some members of the black community, and more specifically the Jamaican community refuse to identify the root problem, the more their children will suffer.

I find it fascinating that accusations and insults can be fired by some members of the black community towards our schools our teachers our police and so called white society in general, yet the moment criticism is directed the other way its immediately stifled with the cry of racism.

In all the reports and recommendations on Africentric schools, nowhere is the issue of parenting addressed. No where is single family homes addressed, and nowhere can you find any responsibility placed on the shoulders of people who have lost control of their kids at home.

It’s nothing more than passing the buck. Parents who have failed at home refuse to take responsibility and then look for other people to blame.

Why is it that Asian kids, or East Asian kids or kids from other colours and cultures don’t seem to have the problems within our system that some black kids do? And why is it that black parents from places like Bermuda and Barbados and Trinadad and Tobago are dead against black schools?

It’s because there isn’t so much a racial problem within our schools, it’s more of a cultural problem; a culture that accepts fatherless homes and multiple children by multiple sperm donors as the norm.

This issue really hits home with my family. I've told this story before, but here it goes again, my wife was born in South Africa and the word “coloured:” is stamped across her birth certificate. Her parents moved the family out of South Africa because apartheid was wrong and they wanted their kids to live in a free society where all kids were treated the same, where all kids would mix and grow and thrive together.

When my wife and her brother came to Canada they were the only non-whites in their classrooms for years, right into high school, and although it wasn’t easy at times, they managed within the system, and with decent direction at home, they did thrive.

My in-laws are totally disgusted with the thought of Africentric schools and so is my wife. It’s a horrible step backwards and slippery slope that will only lead to demands by other groups for schools of their own.

My in-laws aren’t big on the word Africentric either. If anyone could genuinely call themselves African-Canadians it would be them.

But they refuse. They’re Canadians. All for one and one for all. Especially schools.


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26 Responses to "Stop The Madness"


Megan
January 25, 2008 / 12:28

Here here Freddie! Excellent comment. I wonder if kids go through a segregated school system, how are they going to deal with other cultures when they have to go and work in the real world? Responsible kids get their start in life at home. Schools can only teach so much.


Bob
January 25, 2008 / 12:35

Fred, you have beaten this topic to death already several times. I fully agree with you but unfortunately nobody is listening to people like us.

As wrong as it is, let them try and I can already give you the results:The drop out rate will not go down and there will be more violence in these schools than in the "mixed" ones. Of course, they will still find more reasons to blame the rest of the society for their failures.

I also agree with you that it is more of a cultural thing (i.e. Jamaican)than a black thing. What bothers me is that the other black cultures (i.e. Bermuda, Aruba, etc.)never get together and publicly and in great numbers denounce this insane idea. Scared?? Maybe??? Who knows.


Keene
January 25, 2008 / 13:30

Well said Fred!
We have all heard lots of discussion on this but your argument is as good & clear as any I have heard!


Jason | GetYourOJ.com
January 25, 2008 / 14:30

This is mind boggling, nothing short of counter-productive nonsense coming from both sides of the fence. The worst possible solution ever. An absurd sick joke and an embarrasement to Canada and what Canada is all about.


LEW
January 25, 2008 / 14:42

"We do not yet adequately understand the way in which the different environments in the world have selected over time the genes which determine our capacity to do different things," he is quoted as saying. "The overwhelming desire of society today is to assume that equal powers of reason are a universal heritage of humanity.
"It may well be. But simply wanting this to be the case is not enough. This is not science. To question this is not to give in to racism. This is not a discussion about superiority or inferiority, it is about seeking to understand differences." - Dr. James Watson


Jason | GetYourOJ.com
January 25, 2008 / 14:59

Bob (and anyone else),

What do you think other human beings from this country and that country standing up against I suppose.. Jamacians.. (who have somehow been villainized the most here) will accomplish? Something positive? Imagine all these silly sub groups getting up and saying "we're not with them" I bet that would make everyone get along and drop their guns.

How about we realise that there are single parent families in every culture and zhyt disturbers in every race and creed and a number of factors including (but not limited to) poverty, literacy/education, young mothers, abuse, self-esteem, sense of community/belonging, and self-respect all play a role in how young people move towards guns and violence.

Now it would be hard to argue than a number of things in pop culture are not guilty of promoting a gangster type of lifestyle or what have you, because they are.

Maybe one thing to do would ask the perpetuators of this nonsence to help us put books in libraries and fund extra curricular activity.

These guys who want to be 'soulja boys' or whatever if they are such heroes why don;t they build learning centres from the money they make out of their stupid clothing lines?

You know who I am "not with"? The media who invents headlines like "the sumer of the gun" and show a slanted view of truth because it's what people want to see.

Statistically, there might be a bigger problem in certain communities, I don't really care.

Stop looing at them as "the other" and not our problem, that isn't how Canada works. Accept it.

We open our arms to everyone, well, I guess we have to help fix their shyt too.

What a pain in the ass. Oh well, welcome to the real world. It's not going to change just because someone thinks they are more right than the other side.

How come asians or this group or that group don't have these problems? I don't know but these schools are not the answer and anyone should be able to see that.



Steve
January 25, 2008 / 15:13

With all due respect to Dr. Watson - and Sherlock Holmes too, for that matter - it doesn't take a Phd to recognize the differences, and understand them clearly. The Jamaican culture is incompatable with Canadian culture. That doesn't mean they, or we, are superior, inferior, or anything else. It means what may work back home does not work here, and never will. A new school won't change that. Parental responsibility might.


Steve Brown
January 26, 2008 / 08:15

To Other Steve, Dr James Watson is not Sherlock's side kick he is a Molecular Biologist. He received a Nobel Prize for his work, in concert with Dr Francis Crick, which elucidated the structure of DNA (the stuff that makes us a blonde Sweedish hottie or a nerdy geek). A towering intellect some of his opinions, all backed by solid science, run counter to political correctness and he has paid the price.


Steve
January 26, 2008 / 14:12

No, really? Are you sure it wasn't Watson, the assistant in the room next to Alexander Graham Bell? Crikey.


Bill Brioux
January 26, 2008 / 14:58

Could not agree with you more, Fred. I'm glad my kids have friends, teachers, soccer coaches and neighbors from all over the world living with us here in Brampton. They grew up getting the distinction between race and colour and culture, it is part of their diet, literally.


Ryan
January 26, 2008 / 16:01

In Toronto, Rogers TV is airing the TDSB meeting live on Tuesday starting at 6pm followed by a discussion/call in show at 9.


Steve Brown
January 27, 2008 / 13:25

Other Steve, Don't know enough about Bell's methods to comment, it would make me look stupid.There are a lot of things I don't know just like Dr Watson who admits he does not have all the answers I wish I could understand it all so clearly like you. So tell us what are the things in Jamaican culture that work in Jamaica but not here. And what does incompatable mean.


LEW
January 27, 2008 / 14:06

Other Steve, it is debatable that this is just a Jamaican/Jane and Finch problem; I work in the East End of Vancouver and bring the same argument to the table as you have involving Natives. I’m sure that Australians can chime in on Aboriginals and Americans can discuss generations of blacks not being able to break free from their slums. Integration is attainable, but not to the extent we wish or expect or in your case – demand, as of yet.
Just blaming the parents is as big a cop-out as saying we give them welfare, so it’s not our problem. I applaud the idea behind the school, but am very sceptical that it can be honest with itself.
I think the Bell/Watson answer was to invent call display, so you don't have to pick-up.


Steve
January 27, 2008 / 15:58

Incompatable (sp) means incompatible,
professor, and where's the question mark? Here's a Whipper Billy Watson answer, so we don't have to wrestle with the issue any further.


LEW
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